To Make her Squirt on Your cock, Pull Out At The Right Time!
It’s funny when men complain to me that they can’t make their girlfriends squirt during intercourse and I find out that they had their dicks inside the vagina the whole time.
Of course, just like the finger squirting technique, you will need to remove your penis as the pressure grows and she is about to explode.
Timing is everything at this point, you can read more about squirting timing here. The feeling of release and the vacuum that creates is what usually triggers the rhythmic squirting to take place, especially when used alongside vigorous clitoral stimulation.
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As you pull your penis out of her vagina try rubbing it quickly across her vaginal opening (with vibrator still placed in her clit) and watch those lovely female juices come gushing out.
You want to make girls squirt, especially with women you’ve just met it can be an exhilarating and noble challenge. However there is a problem.
Often times articulating that this is your aim can be off-putting for the woman, it can make her tense-up and become outcome dependent, thereby reducing the likelihood of such an event happening.
This isn’t always the case because some women already know how to squirt and just need a bit of communication from you so there is some mutual understanding that you know what’s going on.
With longer term partners making your mission clear won’t be such a problem. However a lot of the time it’s better to leave some things inarticulated whilst promoting an unspoken feeling of understanding.
In light of this, many men have found it particularly effective to make women squirt during intercourse without that being their spoken intention.
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The woman may feel more comfortable and actually less able to control herself from holding back, which is a common problem when using the fingering technique if you don’t put her in a logical frame of mind.
This is one of the downsides of the finger technique because if you’re working hard with your fingers that can sometimes leave her isolated which will reduce her horniness and engage her logical (the opposite of emotional/sexual) frame of mind reducing the chances of her squirting.
What I am saying in simple terms is that an effective way to make a new or short-term partner squirt is to do so during sex.
So how in the world do you go about making this happen? It’s a good question especially because in general making girls bust during sex is considerably harder than using the finger technique.
The first point is that you’ll need her to be highly aroused. This is essential because it will fill her Skene’s gland with the liquid that will become the female ejaculate.
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To make this technique consistent you will need at least 30-60 minutes of foreplay, or more if you have the time, up to the point where she is becoming highly frustrated that you’re not entering into intercourse with her.
When she is finally aching to be filled up with your penis then you will want to continue to build arousal and make her horny during intercourse.
Pulling out is crucial and although it’s so obvious (your penis is stopping her coming) it is often missed out or mis-timed. Timing is absolutely critical and you get better at timing it right with experience. Although that’s not to say she won’t squirt on the first time.
One of the keys is to build up a steady rhythm, if it looks like she is enjoying it and it’s building to a climax try to simply maintain this pace.
Sometimes disrupting the pattern can make her fall out-of-state so it’s better to keep it steady then try to increase it too fast and then lose control by cumming too soon or become fatigued.
Maintain a steadily growing pace and let the climax build over time. When you feel she is coming close to orgasm then increase the rate at which you rub her clit. Don’t peak too early with the clit rubbing otherwise it may become desensitized just as you need it most.
The stimulation of her clitoris is like the final rockets getting her into outer space once your foreplay and penis have done the hard work of lift off. If you time the clit stimulation right she will be ready to blow.
All you need to do now is rapidly remove your penis. Often it will work best if she doesn’t know you’re going to do this. That means she won’t have time to contract her PC muscles and stop her Skene’s gland from squirting her lovely female ejaculate.
Because many women find it embarrassing to squirt on the first time you are more likely to make it work if it’s done involuntarily.
As you pull out continue rubbing her clit, either with your finger or dick. Do this all quickly and without her realising what is happening.
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Please be emotionally sensitive when you do this. After all this is about giving her intense pleasure in a way that she may not have felt before.
She may be emotionally vulnerable if she squirts everywhere without knowing what has really happened or that it was even possible.
She may be embarrassed so this is a good point to build a strong emotional connection and help her become more of a sexually confident and self expressive woman.
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